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It’s fair to say that men will enjoy most sex positions – pretty much any that involve, well, sex.

Women are a bit different, and what men may love the most isn’t what is going to get their lady to the finish line. Don’t spend all your energy trying to make a crazy position work, instead spend that time focusing on pleasure while enjoying some of these timeless classics that women love.

Here are some of my favourites:

1. Missionary

Missionary is one of the most popular sex positions for a reason: it delivers results! It is intimate, allowing you to gaze deep into your lover’s eyes as you reach the finish line. The positioning and motion stimulates the woman’s clitoris, which is what the majority of ladies need in order to orgasm.

Perhaps this is why women have been rating it their top pick over the years

The romantic and softer side of me really enjoys missionary, While in missionary, I’m able to see him above me, look into his eyes and wrap my entire body around him. There’s much more of a connection while in missionary, especially with someone I have feelings for.

In my book, relaxation is step one to orgasm. But besides that, missionary is my number-one position because I can control the angle of my pelvis to make sure he's really hitting just the right spot, however I can do the same in cowgirl.

2. Missionary Variation: Legs On Chest

One of the great things about missionary is that there are plenty of ways to spice it up. For example, instead of laying chest to chest, try holding your partner's legs against your chest, crossed at the ankles with her thigh muscles clenched. I love this variation because the clenched thighs provide the same amount of clitoral stimulation (if not more) and allow for a little more hip movement to help my partner hit that sweet spot. Men definitely enjoy the tighter feel, the ability to go for deeper thrusts, and the increased visibility.

3. Doggy Style 1: Stacked Spooning

If we were going by most enjoyable positions for men, doggy style would definitely make the cut. It’s no secret why men love this porn-tastic position. It is naughty, allows for full range of motion, and you really can’t beat the view. For me, on the other hand, doggy style is not always a slam-dunk. A variation of doggy-style that I like and both men and women can get behind, if you'll pardon the pun is stacked spooning.

It’s a lot like the well-known spooning position, but instead of staying on your sides, you and your partner are stacked on top of one another. Have your partner lay face down on a bed or some other soft surface with her legs slightly spread. Lie on top of her, using your arms for support (kind of like a plank) and enter her from behind. Not only does this face down configuration provide more intense friction with each thrust, the rocking motion also creates some pleasurable pressure against my clitoris for a double whammy.

4. Doggy Style 2: Pillow Under Pelvis

If the stacked feeling proves to be a little bit too much, you can also try placing a pillow underneath her pelvis. The slight elevation allows for much deeper penetration, and also puts me at the perfect angle for some effortless G-Spot even A-spot stimulation.

5. Doggy Style 3: Flattened Doggy

There are other spins on traditional doggy that are also great for me. While in a flattened doggy, the man is able to hold me down by the small of my back. Not only is this great for women that like me enjoy to be restrained, but the lower back is also an erogenous zone of the female body. This position can also allow for more G-spot stimulation this is a great choice for women who are more turned on by the submissive side of sex.

6. Woman On Top

When it comes to female-friendly sex positions, being on top (cowgirl/ reverse cowgirl) is definitely a pleaser! With the man on his back, I get full control of depth and speed of motion, and are free to grind my hips in whatever way will provide the best direct clitoral stimulation. From a visual perspective, this position is just about as good as it gets for men. Plus, because this position focuses more on rocking back and forth than thrusting in and out, men tend to last a bit longer too

7. Woman On Top Variation: Chair

Some women may shy away from the standard cowgirl position because they feel too on display or are self-conscious in their movements, If this is the case, or if you just feel like trying something a little more comfortable, take this position to the nearest couch or chair. Sit up normally and have your partner straddle you so that you are face-to-face, or breasts-to-face, depending on height. Instead of bouncing up and down like they do in all of your favourite movies, I swirl around in circles, and rock back and forth so that the penis hits the wall of my G-spot over and over again. This grinding motion also does some pretty magical things for my clitoris too, hopefully resulting in an elusive blended orgasm.

So there you have it, some of my favourite positions.