adens's Blog

It’s well known that self-love has become a Tantric practice. Based on this point, cyber sex is a solo technique of sexual energy exchange. “Through Tantra, we can come to understand that we are ourself the source of sexual energy and that the other is only triggering what is already in us. At the deepest Tantric levels, then, there is no longer me, you, or the attraction between us. All are connected in a global Oneness (or in a cosmic orgy, if that is your preference,)” says Ivo Quartiroli in his book The Digitally Divided Self: Relinquishing our Awareness to the Internet. So, cybersex is broadening the possibilities of sexual energy exchange and transformation. It doesn’t really matter on the path of self-discovery if your partner is a human or a sexual toy.

Ivo Quartiroli assures, “Through cybersex meetings, which are almost exclusively with partners who are strangers, we can even approach a Tantric attitude where young, old, beautiful, ugly, thin or fat no longer matter. We flow with the pure sexual energy. We can even export that same attitude to our offline life. Tantra is about “not choosing”, merging with the sexual energy in itself. Preferences about body shape are seen as the mental constructions that they are. But widening our connection beyond the mental preferences can happen only after we have a matured heart center and the capacity to fully experience our bodily sensations. It does not support either factor.”