male (47) from Franklin, Michigan 
looking for female.
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About bigoldbear
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Body Type
Big and lovely
Drinking
Socially
Education
School of Life
Ethnicity
White / Caucasian
Eye Color
Green
Fetishes
Big tits, Blindfolds, Bondage and discipline, Leather, Role-playing, Shaved smooth, Spanking, Talking dirty, Tattoos, Toys, Voyeurism
About Me
First - I quite quickly mark things as spam, mark accounts as spammers, and often block people. If you want to write me, be at least a little original, and don't send me off site contact information until we establish a connection. This site has about 80 scammers to each real girl, sadly, so my Bullshit detector is on and turned way up.
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If you move past this profile without getting to know Chuck, you are definitely missing out. I can tell you this honestly, because I am his girlfriend and submissive of a year and a half and have the pleasure of living with him full-time.
“Then why is he on here?” you may ask. Well, you see, we're polyamorous. From the first time we met we were honest with each other about monogamy just not working. The constraints of a singular relationship didn't fulfill our romantic and emotional needs. We have an open arrangement that suits multiple-partner situations, but at this time is best suited to play partners and friends with benefits situations.
Chuck is a wonderful friend to have, and an even better partner. He never balks at supporting those he cares about to his utmost. He is a man that it is quite easy to be proud of, and often one that struggles with feeling pride in himself. So, here I am, telling you that in a partner or a friend you could not hope for better. He is respectful but also curious. His interests vary widely from science to literature, cooking to video games. He doesn’t watch much television but isn't … to give shows a chance. He is the kind of man who knows a lot about many things and is inherently capable. If you present Chuck with a problem, he will find a way to solve it. He isn't afraid to winnow out your deepest, most secret fantasies and bring them to life before your eyes. He loves to make people laugh. He has a particular talent for making female partners weak in the knees with the slightest touch. In general I would describe him as passionate, jovial and intelligent--in romantic relationships he is extremely loyal and thoughtful. He is an easy person to love deeply. He is a man of conviction, kindness, intellect and deep sexual energy.
As a Master he is accommodating and flexible and seems to maintain control with very little effort. He accumulates tools suited to each partner, with a wide array of kink toys designed to suit anyone's secret desires. He is open to many types of play and explores new avenues with a voracious appetite for knowledge. He is adept at after-care, and always solicitous of his partner's comfort and pleasure. Safety is something he pays careful attention to while engaging in kink play, and he is quite knowledgeable on the topic.
Truthfully, Chuck is the total package. He's funny, smart, kind, loving and loyal. He sticks by those he cares about through thick and thin. He does not brook betrayal. He is adorably passionate about his interests and instinctively protective of partners. He is the kind of man you spend a lifetime looking for. He has a smile and a laugh that could light up a dark room. If you want to know what being truly cared about feels like, take a chance. Get to know him. You won't rue the time spent.
For those curious, I am a 24-year-old redhead grad student and artist. Yes, there is a significant age gap between myself and Chuck, but our relationship works so seamlessly and well that I can honestly say he is the single best partner I have had in my life. If you are interested in getting to know both of us, let Chuck know, and hopefully we can arrange something.
Thank you for taking the time to read through this. I've tried to give the most accurate description of Chuck that I could. If you're interested, send him a message! You have little to lose and an incredible amount to gain.
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If you move past this profile without getting to know Chuck, you are definitely missing out. I can tell you this honestly, because I am his girlfriend and submissive of a year and a half and have the pleasure of living with him full-time.
“Then why is he on here?” you may ask. Well, you see, we're polyamorous. From the first time we met we were honest with each other about monogamy just not working. The constraints of a singular relationship didn't fulfill our romantic and emotional needs. We have an open arrangement that suits multiple-partner situations, but at this time is best suited to play partners and friends with benefits situations.
Chuck is a wonderful friend to have, and an even better partner. He never balks at supporting those he cares about to his utmost. He is a man that it is quite easy to be proud of, and often one that struggles with feeling pride in himself. So, here I am, telling you that in a partner or a friend you could not hope for better. He is respectful but also curious. His interests vary widely from science to literature, cooking to video games. He doesn’t watch much television but isn't … to give shows a chance. He is the kind of man who knows a lot about many things and is inherently capable. If you present Chuck with a problem, he will find a way to solve it. He isn't afraid to winnow out your deepest, most secret fantasies and bring them to life before your eyes. He loves to make people laugh. He has a particular talent for making female partners weak in the knees with the slightest touch. In general I would describe him as passionate, jovial and intelligent--in romantic relationships he is extremely loyal and thoughtful. He is an easy person to love deeply. He is a man of conviction, kindness, intellect and deep sexual energy.
As a Master he is accommodating and flexible and seems to maintain control with very little effort. He accumulates tools suited to each partner, with a wide array of kink toys designed to suit anyone's secret desires. He is open to many types of play and explores new avenues with a voracious appetite for knowledge. He is adept at after-care, and always solicitous of his partner's comfort and pleasure. Safety is something he pays careful attention to while engaging in kink play, and he is quite knowledgeable on the topic.
Truthfully, Chuck is the total package. He's funny, smart, kind, loving and loyal. He sticks by those he cares about through thick and thin. He does not brook betrayal. He is adorably passionate about his interests and instinctively protective of partners. He is the kind of man you spend a lifetime looking for. He has a smile and a laugh that could light up a dark room. If you want to know what being truly cared about feels like, take a chance. Get to know him. You won't rue the time spent.
For those curious, I am a 24-year-old redhead grad student and artist. Yes, there is a significant age gap between myself and Chuck, but our relationship works so seamlessly and well that I can honestly say he is the single best partner I have had in my life. If you are interested in getting to know both of us, let Chuck know, and hopefully we can arrange something.
Thank you for taking the time to read through this. I've tried to give the most accurate description of Chuck that I could. If you're interested, send him a message! You have little to lose and an incredible amount to gain.
Hair Color
Red
Children
No
Height
6'0"-6'3" (183-191cm)
Income
$50,000-$70,000
Common interests
Cooking
Languages
English
On the site for
Casual sex, Dating, Discreet relationship, To teach and be taught
Sexual interests
1 on 1 sex, Threesome
Nickname
Chuck
Relationship
Open relationship
Religion
Buddhist
Smoking
Never
bigoldbear is Looking For
Age
18-27
Body Type
Big and lovely
Drinking
Socially
Education
School of Life
Ethnicity
White / Caucasian
Eye Color
Brown, Green
About my Match
I make no bones about who or what I am, and want. Im looking for girls around half my age. For those mathematically challenged, that would mean 19. I am a teacher, often looking for students. I'm a pot smoker with his medical card. I'm a guy with two bi girlfriends in their early twenties who are often willing to play with fun new girls.Im a 'daddy' dominant, looking for little girls. I'm a pervert looking for a slut. I'm a larger guy, who finds all types of bodies attractive, and will not be giving, or taking, any shame for size. . .Unless that is ' part of a game, to turn you on. *wink* And, oddly enough, I actually know what the implications of all of those things are. . .And I like most of them too. I don't expect sluts not to stray some. I don't expect little girls to be super mature. I don't expect students to be experienced.
What I do expect is willingness, enthusiasm, and adventuresome spirit, and a willingness to try to find the fun wherever I lead you. And there is always fun to be had in the spaces I lead to. . .Or I lead us right back out.
Beyond that, do not be surprised if my schedule isn't completely free. Somehow, despite what common wisdom would dictate, I turn out to be in demand. Perhaps its because I love to make women cum. Perhaps its because I am good with my hands, or perhaps even more important, good with my mind. . .Perhaps its just that I like sex, practice it, and work hard to make others enjoy it. Either way, almost every serious partner I have had since my teens seems to want me back in their pants. And I'm honest enough to admit that I'm not willing to settle for any one, or two, women. I'm not a Don Juan, or a Casanova, but apparently the fact that I try to get my partner off, enjoy that, and am inventive makes me a good lover.
Which makes me feel disappointed in most men, but awfully glad for my positioning because of it.
What I do expect is willingness, enthusiasm, and adventuresome spirit, and a willingness to try to find the fun wherever I lead you. And there is always fun to be had in the spaces I lead to. . .Or I lead us right back out.
Beyond that, do not be surprised if my schedule isn't completely free. Somehow, despite what common wisdom would dictate, I turn out to be in demand. Perhaps its because I love to make women cum. Perhaps its because I am good with my hands, or perhaps even more important, good with my mind. . .Perhaps its just that I like sex, practice it, and work hard to make others enjoy it. Either way, almost every serious partner I have had since my teens seems to want me back in their pants. And I'm honest enough to admit that I'm not willing to settle for any one, or two, women. I'm not a Don Juan, or a Casanova, but apparently the fact that I try to get my partner off, enjoy that, and am inventive makes me a good lover.
Which makes me feel disappointed in most men, but awfully glad for my positioning because of it.
Hair Color
Auburn, Red
Height
6'0"-6'3" (183-190cm)
Income
$70,000-$100,000
Religion
Buddhist
I'm looking for
female
Smoking
Quit