Lady_Kuro-Kitsune's Blog

So I've been a member on this site for 4 years now. I've only ever met up with 3 women on here and one of them I previously knew in person, so I don't know if that counts...

I want to know if other member shares my frustration?

Here's the issue at hand. A lot of times I will meet a lady I find attractive on fb and they live close to me. We hit it off and the dirty talk begins, pictures are exchanged ect ect, sometimes even numbers. By that point,we both decide to time to meet up and play . Well play date never comes and I'm stuck feeling like I had a one night stand but wasn't even there physically....

Like seriously I get crickets, won't answer txts , messages ect. Most of the time I never hear from them again. Or I find out they got scared.. Which is understandable. I personally like to get know someone a lil bit before doing the nasty. I'm patient and understanding. But after I try to make plans on multiple occasion with a person for them to keep flaking and being nervous, I loose interest and it kinda leaves a bad taste in my mouth when I think of said person. Or think you might not be who you said you are.

I just get frustrated when someone will give me a thorough play by play of what they wanna do to me and me do to them, then not have the stones to meet up ( people get pretty nasty smiley:. I'm not here to only talk dirty and trade pics, I make that apparent when I first start a conversation with someone I'm interested in... -___-

Please no negative comments, I just want to know if anyone else has had this problem with other members they were excited to meet and they were a no show with no explanation why. Or share your experiences if you have had other issues with members and meeting up.