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More than coffee

I just got back from having coffee with a really good friend of mine. We talked about her new house and how she's having a huge party for Christmas to celebrate. She is smiling ear to ear the whole time. I love spending time with her. As I sip my coffee and continue talking, I think to myself I've known this girl a long time and she knows everything about. Good shit and bad shit. Bad break-ups, 3-somes in our college years, destroying our neighbors yard...the list of shit we have got in to goes on. My friends name is Melissa by the way. The weirdest thing happened at this Starbucks we go to every Sunday night. Melissa tells me she wants more than Coffee on Sundays. I'm instantly like what??? What do you mean? She starts telling me how much she wants to be with me. We have been together many times before sexually, but it was never a relationship thing. My question is...is it wrong to only want to fuck her and not date her? I just want to be friends, and I'm ok with not having sex together too. Please, I need advice. Thanks for reading my thoughts.

  • AChocolateDream: It's only wrong if you KNOW she is feeling you and wants more, BUT instead of telling her how YOU feel, you keep leading her on like you are onboard with her dreams/plans and agenda. Doing so takes away her choice to find happiness with someone else looking for the same things. She might not even mind sharing sexual relations until she finds the right one, but I recommend keeping it honest and saving what sounds like a great friendship. 😎
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