Mr_Bombastik
Mr_Bombastik

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Evolution of sexuality over time

I´ve been interested in sex watched porn since I was 11 in 1995, and one thing that fascinates me is how sexuality has evolved since that time.

Back in 1995 glamcore porn was dominating the scene with baywatch girls on TV,

and the kind of glamourous hardcore porn with busty,curvy babes in luxurious lingerie aged 23-26 fucked by muscular tatooed guys aged 26-38.

It was a time when most people watched porn on TV after midnight on cable, the same kind off stuff offered on pay-per-view at fancy hotels.

This is the kind of porn i grew up with, and it shaped my fantasies.

The performers were quite serious, the men quite macho and the girls just hot to look at, not much smiling and joking.

Later, around 2002 A new more playfull, corny naughty porn emerged, which dominates to this day on sites like Brazzers,Bang bros and Reality Kings among many others..

This was a time when most people were watching porn online on the so called tube sites like pornhub,redtube etc, and webcam girls flooded the internet.

It´s also been a time when all sorts of new fetishes have emerged from obscurity and become common, In the nineties there was probably just a third as much fetish porn out there..

In the nineties interracial porn with black men fucking white women was still a bit thrilling, but nowadays that´s just normal..

With "public pickups" and other "scandalous" behaviour beeing not so remarkable.

I clearly see a difference in mentality between women who were teens in the 90s vs the 00s..

And the kind of porn they were watching as teens clearly has something to do with it, not just maturity...

I´ve had sexual experiences with both generations and the girls orn in the 90s are clearly more naughty, playful and experimenting. Prone to scandalous behaviour..

While the girls born in the eighties are more proud, confident and "classy"..

I´ve myself developed from a more quiet, serious macho guy as a … and in my early 20s, Into a more outgoing, naughty and playfull mature guy.

18-19 year olds find me very attractive, some of them even irresistible alltough i´m 30 years old..

I´ve gotten naughty offers from girls born in 95!

Lately I´ve been a frequent guest at stripper clubs, and gotten a glimpse of the fetishes of other men in different ages.

The girls are almost always aged between 18 and 35, most of them between 23 and 26..

The clubs however vary much in style and atmosphere, depending on the clientel..

I first visited the club Heartbeat here in Stockholm, It had mosty guests who were middle aged, many of them taxi drivers..

It clearly had an atmosphere of 1980s, which seemed weird to me, but apparently most guests prefered this, as it reminded them of when they were young.

I was not allowed to touch the girls, so I quickly moved to another place..

At Kino most of the guests were between 18 and 35, about the same age as the girls and the atmosphere was more modern and youthful in my opinion..

And very naughty..

I was allowed to touch and feel as much as I wanted, cupping the stripper´s boobs and caressing her body and grabbing her butt..

Girls told me they could suck me as long as I wanted, and told me they wanted me to cum in their face..

Finally I went to Club Privé, the most popular club in Stockholm..

It had guests of all ages, And clearly had a luxurious, glamorous theme..

There I could sit in the jacuzzi with two busty,curvy babes and drink champagne..

Allthough there were guests of all ages, It felt mostly aimed at men in their 30s-40s. Preferably with a good job and som extra cash to spend..

I felt like the atmosphere was like 1998..

It´s funny how some men get somehow stuck in time, listening mostly to music from a certain decade and obviously having sexual fantasies from that same decade..

"Inga from Sweden" Clearly attracts mostly men who were young in the seventies, when the swedish so called happy-porn spread across the world..

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Geoblocking on Fuckbook?

I'm tired of finding new girls in my area through my overseas friends pinboards, 8 months after they were most active.

Or visit local guys profiles and find they have dozens of local girls on their friends list that I can't seem to find when I'm searching for members in my area.

Am I being discriminated against in some way or are these girls blocking me from seeing them?

Is it some kind of Geoblocking or is it because I'm not verified, or do I have to be a gold member? (I'm only asilver premium member since one and a half years, shouldn't that be enough?

I live in Sweden, talking to girls in California and Florida is fun, but it's too difficult to meet up.

It annoys me that I'm wasting so much time just chatting with girls overseas, While other lads in my area are busy fucking the hot girls in my hometown.

How am I supposed to fuck them if I can't find them?

I demand an explanation!!

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Why can´t you have lingerie for me?

One thing that annoys me with you women, is how you expect me to always want to have sex with you naked or in your ordinary underwear as a boyfriend.

Yet at the same time you take photos in your sexiest lingerie for strangers and photographers.

… and pornstars take for granted that they have to wear lingerie.

But ordinary girls wear it for everyone except their boyfriends, who are expected to like them the way they are..

Trust me I Do!!

But I Do have a fetish, is it illegal for boyfriends to have fetishes?

I want to buy you lingerie, sexy stockings, fishnets, very tight dresses and have you wear stripper shoes with stiletto heels!

It turns me on immensely, do I have to pay for that service?

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How I discovered the world of hardcore sex

When I was young I didn't watch much porn, I did see my first porno movie that an older friend showed me when I was 11 and I did find the school janitors old pornomags when I was 8 when me and my friends … into the janitors .

But I didn't really think much about it that age.

When I Was a teenager I didn't have my own computer and I had to borrow my family computer and discreetly look at porn when I was at home, which wasn't very often. I even tried to watch porn at the school computer room, mostly pictures or silent clips.

Which was very risky, I might add..

I did get caught at one occasion, and was considered sleazy by the kids at school, that I grabbed a girls but in public did't make things easier for me.

Which feels quite unfair, since they probably watched and did much worse things in private..

Alltogether I didn't watch much porn as a teenager..

Between age 19 and 23 I was in a serious relationship,and allthough I finally had my own

computer and TV ,I don't think I watched a single porno or visited a single website during that time..

Finally when I was 24 I met Karina who was 2 years younger than me, the oldest girlfriend I've had since I was 14. She was extremely social, and behaved extremely confident and experienced.

I had the best sex of my whole life with her, and she gave these amazing blowjobs.

She told me that I was so amazingly innocent, that it was so cute, but she also told me that it wasn' t normal..

She made me start watching porn for real for the first time in my life, at first it was a bit shocking to discover everything that's out there..

When I was younger I had the illusion that some women were to hot for some men, but I dicovered almost everyone having sex with everyone, at least in the sex industry...

She told me i was too sensitive, and at some occasion she even told me I was whining like a. itch.

But i was also very sensual caressing and touching her dearly in ways she wasn't used to.

I learned much about what a woman really wants from her.

I started to be hard and rough but not abusive, grabbing her throat while and bossing her around. I was fucking her in new postions I learned from hardcore porn...

We had an amazing relationship for two years, before she finally broke up with me. She probably wanted to find someone more like herself.

We' re still good friends though, and we keep in close contact and I tell her about all the girls i've had ever since.

One thing that haunts my mind is how she could be so skilled in bed, she behaved as experienced as a 40 year old MILF allthough she was only in her early 20s.

I always suspected she's been selling sex or doing porn and I still do..

But I never asked and she never told me..

I have no idea what name or names she might have been using, so I can' t look her up.

I could do a reverse picture search, with a photo of her and maybe find something.

But I won't because it's none of my business anymore and it doesn't make any difference to me.

I had the best sex of my life with her and I'm thankful for that, she'll always have a special place in my heart.

I still try to teach girls her skills, like not … with their teeth, ugh!(I have a quite thick one, so it doesnt seem to be that easy) but she's still the best sexpartner I've ever had.

Since I broke up with her i've enjoyed myself at stripper clubs and visited red light districts and the local prostitution street.

Talking to the girls and even become friends with some of them, learning much about how it all works. But I haven' t really bought sex, unless a dildo show at the stripper club counts.

Alltough I've been asked and offered services many times.

I don't really don' t have a problem meeting someone at a normal nightclub or bar.

I'm a very open minded, happy and experienced man thanks to Karina!

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I just found out i´m a TJI (tester,justifier and idealist) according to psychology! I test many women and justify it by my search for the right woman. I want her to be perfect, my queen !
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