Most of us love the raw passion of hot pounding sex, but what would make it stand out? A woman's body is wired for extreme pleasure. But there is a key to unlocking all that her body can do. That key comes in the form of sensual affection. If you read any romance novel or watch the most popular chick flicks you will see what they desire. As men we tend to move in for the kill like a hunter, but if a man will take his time and postpone that drive to hunt, he will find his prey is seeking him out. If you hate cuddling then you will have to set aside your biases and give her your full attention. Kiss her softly and move your tongue slowly. Let your lips slide across each other while kissing. Use one or both hands to caress her body. Try varying the pressure of your hands and fingers. The tip of your finger running the length of her body can and probably will cause chills. Kiss and lick her all over, don't rush because the prize is worth the wait. After exploring her thoroughly she will either let you know she is more than ready or she will let you know she wants more of your touch. Finally, when you enter her pussy there will be no need for KY Jelly, she will be wet- Very Very Wet! Take it slow. Make love as you kiss or while you lick and suck her breasts. As the passion builds quicken the pace her orgasms will cascade over her body and she will most likely not be able to resist telling you how good you feel.